Don’t Let the Future Dictate the Present
It’s easy to get caught up in the future, especially when we’re in seasons of transition, uncertainty, or growth. We find ourselves fixating on what’s next—what could happen, what might go wrong, or what we feel we need to accomplish to secure the life we want. I’ve been there, caught up in the “what-ifs” of the future. As a physician's wife navigating medical residency with a new baby, there are countless times when I feel overwhelmed thinking about all the challenges that still lay ahead for our family. But I’ve learned that constantly focusing on the future can rob us of the peace and joy available to us in the present moment.
There’s a delicate balance between planning for the future and living in the present. Planning is necessary, but it becomes an issue when our thoughts about tomorrow overshadow the gifts of today. I’ve had to remind myself that God calls us to live fully in the moment, trusting that He is in control of what’s to come. Matthew 6:34 tells us, “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” This verse has been a guiding light for me as I’ve learned to let go of the constant worry and embrace the present.
When I reflect on this, I realize that worrying about the future often stems from a desire to control outcomes. We all want to know that things will work out, that our efforts will be fruitful, and that we’ll be safe, happy, and successful. But the truth is, we cannot control everything that happens. What we can control is our mindset in the present. By focusing on today—on what we can do, learn, and enjoy right now—we invite peace into our lives. We also position ourselves to be more open to the opportunities and blessings that God has for us in this very moment.
As I’ve grown in my faith, I’ve come to understand that trusting God with the future frees me to live more fully in the present. It’s not always easy to let go, especially when we’re facing major life changes like parenthood, career transitions, or moves. But I’ve learned that when I stop trying to figure everything out and surrender to God’s plan, I experience a deeper sense of peace and fulfillment. Instead of letting fear of the future control my present, I’m learning to embrace today with gratitude and faith, trusting that God’s timing and provision are perfect.
Take Home Message
So, I encourage you to stop letting the future dictate how you live right now. Focus on today—on the little joys, the growth, and the peace that God offers in this moment. Trust that He has already gone ahead and prepared the way for you. By embracing the present, we allow ourselves to live in the fullness of God’s grace, rather than the shadow of fear.