Let Go and Let God
Finding Peace in Surrender
If there’s one lesson I’ve learned through the ups and downs of the past few years, it’s the importance of letting go and letting God take control. As someone who once tried to plan every detail of my life, it wasn’t easy to release my grip and trust that everything would work out as it was meant to. But as I’ve faced major life changes—becoming a mom, supporting my husband through his medical residency, and adjusting to a new lifestyle far from family—I’ve discovered that true peace comes from surrendering to God’s will.
The Struggle of Holding On
Before I learned to let go, I spent a lot of time trying to manage every aspect of my life. I wanted to have everything figured out: my career, my family plans, where we would live, how our future would unfold. I was determined to make things happen according to my timeline, and when life didn’t go as planned, I often felt frustrated and anxious.
This struggle became even more pronounced when I became a mom. The uncertainties of parenthood, combined with the challenges of my husband’s demanding medical residency, made it clear that I couldn’t control everything. The harder I tried to hold on, the more overwhelmed I felt. I realized that I was carrying burdens that were never meant for me to bear alone.
A Turning Point: Learning to Surrender
The turning point came when I recognized that my need for control was robbing me of peace. I began to understand that letting go wasn’t about giving up; it was about placing my trust in God’s plan, even when I didn’t fully understand it. It was about acknowledging that His ways are higher than my ways and that His timing is always perfect.
One of the most powerful moments of surrender for me came during a particularly challenging season. My husband was deep into his residency, and I was navigating the demands of new motherhood while adjusting to life far from my support system. I felt isolated, exhausted, and unsure of how I would manage it all. In that moment, I realized I needed to let go of my need to have all the answers and simply trust that God was guiding our path.
The Peace That Comes with Trust
As I began to let go and let God take control, I experienced a profound sense of peace. I no longer felt the need to stress over every detail or worry about the future. Instead, I focused on the present moment, trusting that God was working behind the scenes in ways I couldn’t see.
This doesn’t mean that everything suddenly became easy or that I never have moments of doubt. But now, when those doubts arise, I remind myself to surrender them to God. I’ve learned that His plans are always better than mine, and that by trusting Him, I’m allowing space for His blessings to flow into my life.
Practical Steps to Letting Go
Letting go and letting God is a daily practice, and there are a few things that have helped me along the way:
Prayer and Reflection: I start my day with prayer, asking God to guide my steps and help me release any worries or fears. Taking time to reflect on His faithfulness in the past gives me confidence that He will continue to be faithful in the future.
Journaling: Writing down my thoughts, fears, and prayers has been a powerful way to process my emotions and surrender them to God. It helps me see patterns of His grace and reminds me of the times when letting go led to unexpected blessings.
Community Support: Surrounding myself with a supportive community has been essential. Whether it’s friends, family, or my church group, having people to lean on and pray with has made a huge difference in my journey of letting go.
Embracing Uncertainty: I’ve learned to embrace the uncertainty of life, knowing that it’s in those uncertain moments that God’s hand is most evident. Instead of fearing the unknown, I now see it as an opportunity to deepen my trust in Him.
Take Home Message
Letting go and letting God isn’t always easy, but it’s a journey worth taking. As I’ve surrendered my need for control, I’ve found a peace that surpasses understanding and a faith that grows stronger with each step. I’ve learned that God’s plans are always for my good, even when they don’t align with my own.
If you’re struggling with letting go, I encourage you to take that first step of surrender. Trust that God has a purpose for your life, and that He is capable of carrying you through any challenge. Letting go doesn’t mean you’re giving up—it means you’re giving in to a greater plan, one that is filled with hope, love, and endless possibilities.
So, let go, let God, and watch as He transforms your life in ways you never imagined.