Finding Your People
Have you ever noticed how your mood, thoughts, and actions shift depending on who you’re with? It’s not about changing yourself to fit in; it’s that certain people naturally bring out different sides of you. Some friendships spark inspiration, laughter, and purpose, while others leave you feeling drained or discouraged. Sometimes it’s subtle—you might not even realize what’s shifted—but you leave certain interactions feeling uplifted or, on the flip side, like a little piece of you has dimmed. The people we spend time with really do shape who we are.
Our relationships have a unique power to influence us, often in ways we don’t see right away. When we’re surrounded by people who encourage us, challenge us, and support us, we tend to feel more confident, grounded, and motivated to be our best selves. The right relationships nudge us toward our goals, bring us more in tune with who we really are, and help us stay focused on what matters most. It’s not about finding “perfect” friends but about recognizing who genuinely makes us feel like the best version of ourselves.
Take a moment to think about the people in your life. Who are the friends who help you dream bigger, who bring joy and laughter, who make you feel seen and understood? These are often the ones who help lift our spirits and help us face challenges with resilience and optimism. Real friends are the ones who don’t just tell us what we want to hear but are willing to give us an honest perspective, even if it’s hard to hear.
But sometimes, we hold onto relationships that may not be serving us well. It’s not about casting anyone aside, but instead being thoughtful about who we allow into our closest circles. Boundaries can be incredibly healthy and transformative. There may be friendships we keep out of habit or a reluctance to be alone, even if they no longer bring positivity into our lives. This doesn’t mean every relationship has to be intense or life-changing, but if someone consistently drains you or fills you with self-doubt, it might be worth reassessing how much time you spend with them.
If you already have those people who help you feel grounded and alive, lean into those relationships. Value them and nurture them. If you don’t feel like you’ve found your community yet, know that it’s okay to take time to find it. Seek connections that support who you are and where you want to go. Relationships should give us the courage to be true to ourselves and help us grow. Embrace those friendships that bring out the best in you and help you move forward with confidence.